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I hate having these OBJECTS inside me
I just got implants about 2 months ago because I thought it would improve my sagging breasts. I have to say that I wish I had just gotten a lift because I hate having these OBJECTS inside me. Thinking about replacements scares me too! And I despise thinking I got myself cut up to put plastic in me. People tell me I'll get used to it but why would I wait for that to happen when I don't want them now? I don't want to just gt used to it-that's understandable right? Everyone else with them that I ask is so happy but I don"t get it! I just keep thinking I don"t understand how girls can not be bothered that there is a water balloon inside them! I mean I know it looks better but I think it's over rated and I feel dumb for not just accepting me:P I'd love to talk to you about it. I mean I've cried about this on and off. I just want to be natural. I'm getting more attention from guys but I don't care because I can't stand them. I'm really scared I'll look odd once I have them out so I'm hoping the lift will help. Plus I went through the areola so the cut is visible. I hate how they feel too! My real breasts felt so much better. I haven't been able to sleep well these things bother me so much. Sometimes I think maybe the doctor is right and I'll get used to the feeling. But honestly....I think I'll always want them out...I don't want to wait till it's too late.
You're having a reaction just like I did. I got implants almost 7 years ago & had them removed just a few months after I got them. It was solely because I felt exactly the way you described. Since they were only in for a few months, there was no deformity. Just so you know, the lift did the job. I'm back to my natural self and I haven't regretted it since. I too, couldn't stand the "balloon" inside of me. it just felt too unnatural. Good luck.
I know a lot of people are telling you you will get used to them but believe me when I say it’s true. I originally had mine done for medical reasons but now I forget I even have them. They soften up if you keep up with the exercises recommended by the surgeon and they feel as natural as I felt when I was younger. I’m quite a natural person myself & my friends, that I have told, don’t even realise I have had them done now. They sort of grow to become part of your body, but you must keep up with the exercises to prevent them getting firm. I wish you all the best on whatever you choose to do.
I too just had them done not quite 2 months ago and I want nothing but to go back to may A cup and push up bras. I'm scared of these being inside of me for years and the need for future surgeries. I've been experiencing numbness like feeling in my hands and feet. Friends tell me that is my anxiety and nothing to do with silicone. I think my small breasts were pretty and now feel they will be ugly. I wish I never did it, but can't change that. All my friends who have them say it was the best thing they ever did. Why don't I feel this way? I knew deep in my heart this was not for me but friends convinced me it would be great since I did nothing but complain all the time about not having boobs. Even my husband says I never stopped talking about it! hindsight IS 20/20.
I've had my implants since I was 16.
A lot of people think this is a disgusting age to have surgery at but I was born with Polands Syndrome, quite an extreme case which basically meant I had no breast tissue (no muscle) at all on the left side. I developed quite young so it became quite visible quite quickly. Being that age, at school with other kids, it can be hard enough so the doctors and I decided that having the surgery was the best thing to do as I had already had a few comments about being 'lopsided' which as you can imagine was horrible!
I had both sides done as it wouldn't have been possible to operate on the one side without the other looking and feeling different.
Anyway, I don't particularly like having these pieces of plastic inside my body, with no muscle on one side it's basically just plastic under skin, you can feel there's no muscle there but it's completely changed my life, I can go swimming and wear the sort of clothes I want (not even low cut tops, by the way, a lot of shapes would show off the lack of tissue even if it was a high cut) and I don't feel the need to worry about looking 'different'.
I do however, hate that people use plastic surgery to extremes, getting boob job after boob job until there's nothing but plastic, it gives surgery a bad name!
I think you should stop worrying about what other people do with their own bodies and instead worry about yourself. If a woman decides to have more than one boob job I dont really think it's any of your concern.
Christ, you *** whack jobs. Why don't you actually THINK about getting these surgeries, do some research, and speak to some other patients, before you just hop on the band wagon and do them. It's not for everyone but some women owe their newly positive mind set on life to "those plastic things" inside them. IGONORANT.
You really shouldn't post on here if you are going to call people "Whack Jobs." This is supposed to be for support. I DID research it for 10 years, talked to all my friends who had them, had 4 consultations, etc. So, regardless of that, when I had them put in I hated it! That is when I first posted on here and yes I am feeling much better about them now. But some people may not get there. I'm glad for you that you have had a positive mindset, but you can't just judge people without knowing all they are going through. I think you are IGNORANT (you didn't even spell that right) for posting what you did. You obviously have some growing to do and won't be of any guidance to other women. So perhaps you should just go on hour merry way with your new boobies.
God forbid I make the common mistake of a TYPO. Making typo's doesn't mean one can't spell, but why do I need to state something so obvious to someone so misguided? I think YOU are an insecure little brat and if you'd actually done the BS "decade" worth of research, you would have known that you get used to the "OBJECT" feeling that is accompanied for the first few months, and that eventually subsides. Now look yourself in the mirror, take a deep breath and say "I can get through the day without crying because I don't know what my identity is, yet".
You are obviously in need of telling people your opinion instead of helping them. Really, how could you possible deduce that I am an insecure brat out of that comment? You are just looking for an argument. Go to another website that isn't called "goodbyimplants" if you are so happy with yours. Can't you see that these women are here because they are afraid or confused? Why would you even come to this website if not for anything other than a place to argue. Look yourself in the mirror and say "I am an idiot who doesn't give a crap about anybody but myself!" I won't reply to any of your further posts just to entertain our need to speak out and label people so save your breath.
Re read the post and following comments. These women had MANY friends who said it made them happier. These ARE patients you MORON. they are also friends who aren't just a bandwagon. they suggested surgery for the right purposes. OR there are some women who felt that their lives were affected greatly in a negative way by the lack of breasts or small breasts. PERHAPS if the media didn't put such a push on womens body image some of these women would ahve been savbed from their dissappointment. As for being ignorant, you appeared to have used it to signify these women were stupid...they were not stupid, they were ignorant. EVERYBODY is ignorant before they KNOW...you're pointing out the obvious and using it as though we are all stupid...or as you call it for some reason...IGNORANT!
To the women who HAVE posted in here, I feel deeply sorry tht you regret these boobs etc. I HOPE you can find a solution! xoxo
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